Resources for Facilitators & Mentors
We are so excited to have you on the team. Below are all the resources we have to support you to be the best facilitators and mentors you can be!
Training Courses
Facilitator Training
Mentor Training
For Facilitators
Your Facilitator Dashboard
Each Facilitator has a unique dashboard that includes all of the information about their group.
To access your profile, you must log in with an Airtable account.
Weekly Check-in Form
For your convenience here is our weekly check-in form. Please fill this out after each of your group calls.
Group Call Guide
This document outlines the group commitments and the general format for each call.
For Mentors
Your Mentor Dashboard
Each Mentor has a unique dashboard that includes all of the information about their mentees.
To access your profile, you must log in with an Airtable account.
Report Your Mentee Calls
Tracking each mentee’s progress is important to us. Use the form below to report after you have completed the Mentor Calls.
Roadmap to Sexual Integrity
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TRAPPED Er UNAWARE
Life isn't working out well, but you are stuck biorning other people S circumstances for problems
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OPEN TO SUGGESTIONS (1-24 MONTHS)
You're becoming aware that your life could changer but it sounds too herd & you're still not that motivated
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ON TRE EDGE OF CHANGE (1 MONTH)
You really want to transform into a better version of yourself, S. you're takin • small steps to become ready
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ACTION JACKSON (6 MONTHS)
You've committed to the process of chango aro lexperimonting with new habits
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MAINTENANCE (LIFETINLE)
You have adopted a new persona, and porn is,icirrkething In your past. Although relapses are possible. they are only a $rnall setback.
STAGE #1
Trapped & Unaware
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STAGE 1 - SNAPSHOT
A person at this stage of life is very unaware of why their life feels stuck
It is easy to feel justified in PMO because as far as the person is concerned, their life is the problem and PMO is their escape.
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HABITS
You are escaping problems through PMO
Blaming circumstances for your feelings
Protecting your bad habits from others
Victimizing yourself
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THOUGHT PROCESS
"I don't have a problem"
"1 NEED PMO"
"Things will work themselves out"
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COMMON EMOTIONS
Apathy
Despair
Frustration
Anger (Blame)
Overwhelm
STAGE #2
Open to Suggestions (1-24 months)
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STAGE 1 - SNAPSHOT
A person at this stage is experiencing the reality of their bad habit sinking in.
They enjoy using PMO because the benefits of doing so still outweigh the negatives.
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HABITS
You are stopping short of committing to change, but it's on your mind.
You are still using PMO to cope with life's challenges but are becoming more aware of the consequences of your actions.
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THOUGHT PROCESS
"I probably should do something to change..."
"I 'd like to change but I don't know if I can do it..."
"I don't know if I could live without
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COMMON EMOTIONS
Mounting Guilt
Regret for all the time wasted
Cautious hope that change is possible
STAGE #3
On the Edge of Change (1 month)
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STAGE 1 - SNAPSHOT
A person at this stage is starting to feel the negatives of their habit outweigh the positives and is gearing up to let it go.
They want to share more about their decision to change with others in the hopes they can experience validation that change is possible for them.
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HABITS
You are getting ready for a big change to take place (watching videos, listening to the podcast, thinking more about it, etc)
You're starting to talk about the change you want to see with those close to you.
You're coming to High Noon events.
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THOUGHT PROCESS
"I want to but I don't know how to get started..."
"Show me a clear plan and I'll jump in."
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COMMON EMOTIONS
Excited
Hopeful (Renewal/Fresh)
Nervous
Competent
STAGE #4
Action Jackson (6 months)
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STAGE 1 - SNAPSHOT
A person at this stage recognizes the value of putting effort into their growth.
Their efforts are being rewarded with feelings of growth A healthy change.
It is imperative at this stage to understand that willpower alone will not heal their wounds. They need to instead invest in changing their mental and emotional models of coping with life.
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HABITS
Testing out new habits and letting go of old, outdated habits is becoming normal
Are finding ways of rewarding good behavior
Learning how to deal well with setbacks in the form of lapses/relapses
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THOUGHT PROCESS
"Let's go!"
"I will find a way to make this work"
"This is not at all what I thought it 111 would be like..."
"I'm not sure if I can do this..."
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COMMON EMOTIONS
Empowered
Eager
Unsteady
STAGE #5
Maintenance (Lifetime)
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STAGE 1 - SNAPSHOT
Staying 'changed' can be the most difficult part of this process, because it requires a person to identify as a new version of themselves.
Lapses and Relapses are always a possibility, but a person with a foundation of recovery always has a way forward again.
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HABITS
You are in the habit of evaluating how your life is going and constantly looking for opportunities to improve.
The 5 High Noon virtues are constantly on your mind as a priority to stay aligned with your ever-updated Northstar Goals.
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THOUGHT PROCESS
"I feel comfortable in my own skin..."
"I think I can actually get married and be happy..."
"I don't want to go back to the old me"
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COMMON EMOTIONS
Stable
More capable of handling all emotions in a healthy way
Forgiving
Occasionally ashamed (if lapse/relapse occurs)
STAGE #6
Connected & Fulfilled
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STAGE 1 - SNAPSHOT
A person at this stage has no use whatsoever for the habits of their former self.
The possibility of someone so deeply connected with their true selves sabotaging their life with destructive habits is unfathomable.
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HABITS
Self-awareness is second nature, and any destructive thoughts/emotions are identified quickly and processed healthily
Staying connected to a community in order to stay aligned with your ideal self and to help others do the same is a staple in your routine
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THOUGHT PROCESS
"I am enough"
"I am worthy of love "
"I want to help others and spread the healing that I experienced"
''God Loves me"
"I am needed in this world"
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COMMON EMOTIONS
Connected to self, others, God
Connected to purpose
Connected Northstar Goals
Stages of Self-Awareness
Catching Up with Yourself
Walking Next to Yourself
Getting Ahead of Yourself
Contact the Team
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Robert
Email: robert@highnoon.org
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Araceli
Email: araceli@highnoon.org