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Committed Sex

The hippies did a masterful job of divorcing responsibility from pretty much every aspect of life. The crowning jewel of the peace & love movement was the total denigration of commitment itself, reducing it to a hollow, feeble version of itself. Commitment fell from a virtue to uphold down to an annoying inconvenience to avoid.

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Love Resuscitation: How to Make It Through the Tough Times

Fighting is a little like exfoliating our skin. (Full disclosure—I have real-life experience in spas, and I’m secure in admitting that). For anyone that is unfamiliar with the process of exfoliation, it advertised as a gentle process of cleansing the outer layer of your skin in order to remove all the dirt and grime so that you face radiates with newness and youthful beauty. At least that’s the idea. But in reality, it is like sandpaper scraping off a layer of your skin so that your new skin underneath can have its turn to shine.

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Chicago Hosts High Noon Summit

On April 20, High Noon hosted an eventful Summit in Chicago for 142 participants from across the Midwest. It was a great opportunity to learn about healthy intimacy and connect with the vision of a porn-free world of sexual integrity, filled with informative presentations, moving testimonies, and connecting with others. Participants joined Summit from as far as eight hours away, including Michigan, Minnesota, Kansas, Nebraska, Ohio, Indiana, and more. In addition, 13 entire families attended together!

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How This Husband and Father Got Control of His Porn Addiction

After all the work I've done until now; installing Covenant Eyes, attending High Noon's program, confessing, I've gone without watching any porn for more than one year. During that time, there were moments of stress and times when I was all alone, but I've been able to manage my emotions until today.

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5 Ways to Support Your Partner's Porn Recovery

Marriage is such an intense relationship. We come into it with expectations based on all the influences of our family life and the culture we grew up in. Often we're not completely aware of how those influences have created emotional patterns and habits. Add to that the differences between men and women and you've got the set up for misunderstanding and conflict.

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Two Becoming One Isn't Just About Sex

Spouses are not independent beings sharing a living space. If there’s something on your mind, your spouse will know. Even if you walk in the door with a smile, if you’re feeling troubled or upset, your spouse will pick up on this. You don’t just share a bed and body parts, sexual intimacy creates an emotional sensitivity to each other.

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