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#175 - Starting Your Marriage Off with a Bang!
Marriage is fulfilling a promise of forever.
It is a major milestone in a couple's lives, and it marks the beginning of a new chapter in their journey together. It signifies a deep commitment to each other and a willingness to face life's challenges as a team.
#157 - Stress Management Will Save Your Life
Life is designed to have stress. It’s a staple and it’s one of the many things that makes us humans. But how we respond is what either makes us or breaks us.
#156 - The Internal Nature of Sexuality | Chad Johnson
We are now in a time where earthly desires are welcomed, masked and embraced with the idea of normalcy. And so oftentimes, we find ourselves rationalizing and saying: It’s normal. It’s what everybody does. It’s all around us.
#143 - Bringing Children Into The World
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the role that a husband plays in the birth of his child, as well as the support that he provides to his wife during her most difficult times, such as giving birth. They also discuss how important it is to deal with our emotions and deal with our sexual integrity while we are single.
#138 - How I Quit Porn So That I Can Have More Focus & Energy
In this episode, Benjy talks about the most significant things we can impart to our children, his own personal journey to overcome porn and how he was able to mend his sexual relationship with his wife. He shares to us the growth equation, which enabled him to let go of beliefs that were detrimental to his growth, as well as how we can optimize the growth equation in our own lives to overcome our personal struggles such as porn addiction.
#132 - Owner VS Renter Of Your Sexuality
In this episode, Andrew, Benjy, and special guest Eric talk about what it means to be an owner and a renter, as well as how to fully own and take control of our sexuality. They discuss different analogies of what ownership means and how we can use those definitions to apply them to why we should take control of our sexuality.
#129 - How 'Turn-Ons' Can Be Customized
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the value of emotional self-awareness, the reasons we shouldn't conflate our emotions with sexuality, and how to make our lives significant and purposeful without turning to porn for fulfillment. They also discuss how "turn-ons" can be customized, the significance of commitment to a long-term relationship, and the negative impact of social media's so-called beauty standards.
#122-Advice To Our Younger Selves
In this Episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about what advice we should give to our younger selves, the lessons we should learn in marriage, as well as trusting God in our journey. They also touch on the importance of having a cause in our lives and finding our sense of purpose.
#121-Why YOUR Marriage Matters (Now more than ever!)
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about why YOUR marriage matters, its impact on society, as well as why we should commit to the marriage process. They also discuss the importance of understanding the two worldviews about marriage, limiting beliefs, and what international marriage is all about.
#120-The Need To Be Wanted
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy Andrew and Benjy talk about our need to be wanted, the powerful feeling it brings us, and why we should allow ourselves to feel wanted by God. They also discuss the importance of having genuine inner peace and having a reciprocal relationship with God.
#119 -Understanding Fantasies
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about what fantasy is all about, its harmful impact, and the difference between healthy and unhealthy fantasies. They emphasize fantasy as a means for turning a person's vision into reality. They also discuss the terrible truth of the porn industry, as well as how the porn industry constantly degrades and exploits women.
#111 -Junk Emotions vs Valuable Emotions
In Episode 111, Andrew and Benjy talk about how our emotions affect our lives, as well as the difference between junk emotions and valuable emotions. They also discuss how emotions affect relationships and what it means to be committed to a marriage.
#110 -Sexuality and Islam with Dr. Drissa Kone
In Episode 110, we are joined by Dr. Drissa Kone, an experienced professor of Conflict Resolution and Ministry, who has been named as the Director of the Unification Theological Seminary’s Doctor of Ministry.
#106 - How to Stay Out of Sexual Debt
The early stages of marriage are one of the most difficult phases because it is the period of adjustment for both of you. You must learn to understand your partner's physical, emotional and sexual rhythms, attitudes, and decisions because marriage is all about compromise.
#105 – Internal Sex vs. External Sex
In episode 105, Andrew and Benjy talk about the difference between internal and external sex. They also highlight what rhythm is and its importance in the foundation of a healthy relationship, as well as, the negative impact of porn on how people view and define sex.
#102 - Why We Need to Talk about Good, Heavenly Sexuality!
In Episode 102, Andrew explains what heavenly sexuality is all about and the importance of truly understanding it. He discusses how High Noon can help YOU in your sexual integrity journey to finally let go of the addiction or bad habits that might be stopping you to grow.
#92 - Sexual Imprinting
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the importance of imprinting and how it affects your impression of what relationships should and shouldn't be. They share how porn creates the wrong interpretation and expectations of people in relationships.
#91 - Dealing with Baggage in Order to Grow
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the events at the recent staff retreat where their families joined as well. They share the meaningful experience that they had, and the biggest realization from that experience.
#89 - God and Sexuality Part 2
In this episode, Benjy and Andrew delve deep into the cross-section between God and sexuality. This topic is quite confusing but it is a fundamental matter of high importance. Tune in and learn how to start having God-centered sexual integrity whether you’re single or married, to put your sexual energy into good use.
#83 - Input vs Output
In this episode, Benjy and Andrew talk about the idea of input vs output and how to achieve a good outcome to feel satisfaction in our everyday lives. This is crucial at first, but it will be something that you will look forward to along the way if your goal is to make the partnership grow.