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#183 - How Sexual Integrity Will Prepare You for Matching & Blessing
In this episode of Love, Life, and Legacy, we explore the importance of sexual integrity in preparing for matching and blessing. It’s vital for a strong, healthy relationship.
#173 - How to Beat Phone Addiction
Mobile phones have significantly transformed our lives and have made it easier to communicate, have access to information, and so much more.
#168 - Why Talking to the RIGHT People Can Change Your Life
Our personal fulfillment is a long journey. Which is why it’s important to keep ourselves grounded and connected with the right people, surrounded by the right support group, and be a part of the right community.
#150 - Why Curiosity Is Essential To Love
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the significance of curiosity in eliciting emotions of love, and how curiosity can be a great way to develop meaningful and healthy connections with ourselves, the people in our lives, and, ultimately, with God.
#149 - God's Sexuality with Dr. Sandra & John Lowen
In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Sandra and John Lowen, a powerhouse couple that represents heaven and earth. They share with us the nature of God's sexuality as well as how sexuality manifests itself across the creation. Dr. Sandra and John Lowen also discuss the most significant challenge that the current generation faces in terms of romantic relationships, the actions that a single person can take to get ready for a loving sexual relationship, and the significance of spending time by ourselves to learn more about who we are rather than engaging in unhealthy habits such as pornography.
#138 - How I Quit Porn So That I Can Have More Focus & Energy
In this episode, Benjy talks about the most significant things we can impart to our children, his own personal journey to overcome porn and how he was able to mend his sexual relationship with his wife. He shares to us the growth equation, which enabled him to let go of beliefs that were detrimental to his growth, as well as how we can optimize the growth equation in our own lives to overcome our personal struggles such as porn addiction.
#133 - Your Relationship With Your Sexual Organ
In this episode, we are joined by our special guest, Carina Cunningham, as we talk about the value of our sexual organs, the importance of building a healthy relationship with our sexual organs, as well as the habits we should avoid that can devalue our sexuality. We also discuss sensuality, which comes from the book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing By Jay Stringer.
#132 - Owner VS Renter Of Your Sexuality
In this episode, Andrew, Benjy, and special guest Eric talk about what it means to be an owner and a renter, as well as how to fully own and take control of our sexuality. They discuss different analogies of what ownership means and how we can use those definitions to apply them to why we should take control of our sexuality.
#122-Advice To Our Younger Selves
In this Episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about what advice we should give to our younger selves, the lessons we should learn in marriage, as well as trusting God in our journey. They also touch on the importance of having a cause in our lives and finding our sense of purpose.
#121-Why YOUR Marriage Matters (Now more than ever!)
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about why YOUR marriage matters, its impact on society, as well as why we should commit to the marriage process. They also discuss the importance of understanding the two worldviews about marriage, limiting beliefs, and what international marriage is all about.
#118 -High Noon Japan with Luke Higuchi
In Episode 118, we are joined by Luke Higuchi, Pastor of Georgia True Family Community Center in Atlanta, a Japanese yoga instructor, and a teacher of Buddhism's prospective life practice with Christian faith. He focuses on reaching out to Japanese people around the world, particularly in their own nation, and helping people who are battling addictions, such as porn addiction, through High Noon and their programs.
#111 -Junk Emotions vs Valuable Emotions
In Episode 111, Andrew and Benjy talk about how our emotions affect our lives, as well as the difference between junk emotions and valuable emotions. They also discuss how emotions affect relationships and what it means to be committed to a marriage.
#106 - How to Stay Out of Sexual Debt
The early stages of marriage are one of the most difficult phases because it is the period of adjustment for both of you. You must learn to understand your partner's physical, emotional and sexual rhythms, attitudes, and decisions because marriage is all about compromise.
#105 – Internal Sex vs. External Sex
In episode 105, Andrew and Benjy talk about the difference between internal and external sex. They also highlight what rhythm is and its importance in the foundation of a healthy relationship, as well as, the negative impact of porn on how people view and define sex.
#103 - How to Be a Spartan Warrior & Defeat Porn
In this week’s episode, Benjy talks about why he created a group called the ‘Spartan’ Warriors and how this program can help you become a ‘marriageable’ man. He talks about battling porn addiction, what sexual energy is, and how you can use it to create and find your purpose in life.
#101 – The ‘Sex’ People
In this week’s episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about who the ‘sex’ people are and how they can help married or single people in finding an accountable partner and maintain a healthy relationship in their lives.
#98 - Three Types of Crushes | Carina Cunningham
In Episode 98, we are joined by Carina Cunningham, as she shares the three types of crushes, what they are, and the information they reveal about ourselves. She also discusses the value of having a strong foundation of love from parents and siblings, as well as the distinction between a crush and a healthy attraction.
#93 - In Love After 33 Years (Life Goals) | Roger & Daniela Wetherall
In this episode, we are joined by Roger and Daniela Wetherall, a blessed couple who have been married for 33 years. They are conducting a free webinar program called The Marriage Course designed to help couples invest in their relationship and build a strong marriage.
#91 - Dealing with Baggage in Order to Grow
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the events at the recent staff retreat where their families joined as well. They share the meaningful experience that they had, and the biggest realization from that experience.
#89 - God and Sexuality Part 2
In this episode, Benjy and Andrew delve deep into the cross-section between God and sexuality. This topic is quite confusing but it is a fundamental matter of high importance. Tune in and learn how to start having God-centered sexual integrity whether you’re single or married, to put your sexual energy into good use.