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I’m a Woman Struggling With Porn/Masturbation & Sexual Integrity
According to our surveys, 48% of young women have watched porn in the last 6 months. The days of “it’s a guy problem” are over, and Mai and Carina are stepping up to share their story and HELP women who are struggling in silence. Benjy Uyama is a group facilitator for men’s groups.
High Noon HDH Book Now Available!
This Hoon Dok Hwe study book is the first of its kind. It is based on the words of True Father and True Mother. Each chapter explores a theme True Father spoke about with great passion. His clear explanations about God’s design and purpose for sexual love inspired us to have open, thought-provoking discussions in this book. Without his courage and leadership in life, this book could not have been written.
High Noon Summit Brings Sexual Integrity Discussion to the Washington Times Building
On September 10 and 11, High Noon held a regional Summit for ACLC pastors and local Blessed Families. Around 80 participated in the weekend.
#92 - Sexual Imprinting
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the importance of imprinting and how it affects your impression of what relationships should and shouldn't be. They share how porn creates the wrong interpretation and expectations of people in relationships.
#91 - Dealing with Baggage in Order to Grow
In this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about the events at the recent staff retreat where their families joined as well. They share the meaningful experience that they had, and the biggest realization from that experience.
#90 - Porn Awareness on Campus | Lily Moric
In this episode, we are joined by Lily Moric, who came all the way from Canada and works for the National Center on Sexual Exploitation. Lily started an advocacy group on campus throughout Canada, trying to change age verification and raising porn awareness on campuses in her country.
#89 - God and Sexuality Part 2
In this episode, Benjy and Andrew delve deep into the cross-section between God and sexuality. This topic is quite confusing but it is a fundamental matter of high importance. Tune in and learn how to start having God-centered sexual integrity whether you’re single or married, to put your sexual energy into good use.
#88 - Men vs Women: A Discussion About Dealing With the Opposite Sex
In Episode 88, Benjy and Andrew are joined by the two ladies, Carina, and her friend Joo Yeon. They talk about how important it is to have friends of the opposite sex, and how to create a balance between being friends and knowing your boundaries.
Helping a Child Cultivate Sexual Integrity & Overcome Porn
The High Noon team shares some insights and experience in helping children and young people develop sexual integrity and overcome porn addiction.
How to Get Out of a Porn Relapse Ditch
Benjy Uyama shares 4 effective ways to bounce back after a porn addiction relapse and get yourself out of a ditch.
#87 - The Secret Sauce to Sexual Integrity Success
In this episode, Benjy reveals the secret sauce of sexual integrity based on his own experiences. He will also bring us an overview of what it looks like to be in your darkest moments. Benjy will share some ways to understand and overcome frustrating situations to move throughout your days with more clarity, focus, power, and integrity.
#86 - Why Accountability is AMAZING | Jorge & Hideaki
In episode 86, we have an amazing duo here with us today, Jorge and Hideaki. They’re here to share with us how an accountability partner can help withstand the test of time and become better, happier, and healthier men.
Signs of a Pornified View of Sex
When porn is the primary sexual reference in a person’s life, it wreaks massive havoc. Countless studies have indicated that the imprinting from our first experiences of sex lays the foundation for our entire sexual arousal template.
#85 - How to Deal with Crushes
In this week’s episode, Andrew and Carina share with us how they dealt with crushes and explain why this is happening. These feelings seem innocent and normal yet it should be something to pay close attention to because if we don't know what to do with them, and we misinterpret the feelings, it can make our lives very complicated, or worse, terrible.
#84 - Wet Dreams Discussed
In Episode 84, Benjy and Andrew talk about something that’s directly connected to focusing your sexual energy in a productive way, and it is all about wet dreams. We will unpack what it truly means, why they happen, and what you can do about it.
#83 - Input vs Output
In this episode, Benjy and Andrew talk about the idea of input vs output and how to achieve a good outcome to feel satisfaction in our everyday lives. This is crucial at first, but it will be something that you will look forward to along the way if your goal is to make the partnership grow.
Am I Addicted to Porn?
It's a question almost everyone with a porn habit asks themselves at some point: Do I have a porn addiction? Benjy Uyama offers a unique and honest perspective on how to honestly answer the question of whether or not your porn addiction is worth addressing.
This 16-year-old is Helping Teens QUIT Porn [With Kozan & Benjy]
Kozan runs his own group of guys who are overcoming porn and training their sexual integrity.
He shares what it's like growing up in a sexualized culture with pornography available anytime and anywhere.
#82 - What is Intimacy?
Intimacy is vital for every relationship to last long. So in this episode, Andrew and Benjy talk about intimacy and how you can find and achieve it whether you’re single, married, or even create intimacy within yourself.
#81 - Helping Men on the Brink of Divorce | Geoffrey Setiawan
In Episode 81, we invited a self-made man who helps men who are on the brink of divorce to salvage their marriage. Geoffrey Setiawan is a Youtuber who creates videos to pursue his passion that led to an actual online course for everyone.